I have been seeing a psychotherapist for a while but I don’t find it helpful at all since I can’t be honest about the things I have done and things i plan to do. My psychotherapist tells me that she has to report any serious crimes that i admit. So i am planning to stop going.
Here’s one of my repeated problems that i never brought up to her.
Every time i am reaching orgasm I see black and white images/video of buildings falling down and ww2 nazis marching in paris. I also look at the girl i’m masturbating to and feel an unbelievable rage, one where i see myself mutilating her face with what seems to be a hammer or screwdriver. This is not meant to be a joke, I just want some insight on what’s going on with me..
Do i hate women subliminally or something?
You may have serious psychotic issues. And I think that if you stopped going to your shrink after she asked you that she may report you. If you have nothing on your record or haven’t done anything though, tell her, and she might just put you on anti-psychotics. I’m not trying to poke fun or make a joke, but you may have the inner workings of a serial killer. You should seek professional help before you do something you will regret.
When we "do it" she always has an unbelievable orgasm (trust me, if she is faking it,she deserves an Oscar!). PLUS, she always has her Big-O long before I do – in fact, sometimes I never get to (talk about role reversal!). BUT, when we were dating, we were intimate nearly every night (well, at least more, if not usually, four or five times a week). Another thing, she NEVER initiates and traditional missionary is pretty much all that I can get her to do. Shes only climbed on top maybe three times in our four years of marriage. This is my third marriage, her fourth. She is 53 and I’m 57.
.Why are you asking us? We don’t know her. Talk to her about this. Perhaps her sex drive has diminished (it happens). Perhaps there is some other issue (or issues). We have no way of knowing. COMMUNICATE…if talking to her doesn’t change anything or she’s not willing to make an effort to discover why her desire is down, then you have to decide if you are willing to accept things as they are or not.
Maybe she needs some romancing and flirting and something that makes her feel like she’s stepped back to the time you were dating. Couldn’t hurt.
okay im 15 and i do masturbate maybe 3/4times a week and i think i have had quite a few orgasms, im a female by the way.
i think i get them almost every time i maturbate.
and i know people say that if you question it then you havent had one but it gets really exciting then it happens and my muscles down there start pulsing and cntracting for about a minute then stop.
dont get me wrong its quite pleasuable but its not amazing or unbelievable as many people say, it only seems to last like 10seconds:S.
so what do you think, was it an orgasm?
yes….Yes….YEs….YES…YEEESSS it was an orgasm. The randier you feel, the better they are, so take your time and enjoy. (By the way, Loyless should be called Joyless, if her answer is anything to go by)
So I have these orgasms (clitoral) in my sleep sometimes. And they are SO intense – like unbelievable.
Why are they more intense in my sleep than my "awake" orgasm?
You are probably more relaxed and having sexy thoughts in your dreams, I expect you are rubbing your clit too, even if you don’t remember. Its unusual to have orgasms in your sleep, I’ve had one or 2 in 40 years but good luck to you
Virginity for men isn’t something they usually brag about. And I believe my boyfriend, why would he lie about his virginity?
A couple days ago he had his first sex. I’m already rather experienced, but I didn’t care that he would be clumsy, because I love him. And I thought ‘teaching’ would be fun as well
But surprisingly, he gave me the best sex of my life. We did four times that night, and except for the first time, when he was finished within five minute(which was expected), he made me orgasm at least twice on each of the next three. It was unbelievable. I don’t think even experienced men could do that.
He’s 20, and had three girlfriends before me. But as I said, I trust him, and he has no reason to make up story.
Is he just naturally good at making love? Maybe he had lots of knowledge about it, and that made up for his lack of actual experience?
Virginity for men isn’t something they usually brag about. And I believe my boyfriend, why would he lie about his virginity?
A couple days ago he had his first sex. I’m already rather experienced, but I didn’t care that he would be clumsy, because I love him. And I thought ‘teaching’ would be fun as well
But surprisingly, he gave me the best sex of my life. We did four times that night, and except for the first time, when he was finished within five minute(which was expected), he made me orgasm at least twice on each of the next three. It was unbelievable. I don’t think even experienced men could do that.
He’s 20, and had three girlfriends before me. But as I said, I trust him, and he has no reason to make up story.
Is he just naturally good at making love? Maybe he had lots of knowledge about it, and that made up for his lack of actual experience?
I pretty much know the signs but I’m just interested in if a guy can always tell or likes you doing that stuff such as moaning and panting and getting flushed and your heart beating fast and twitching and everything else they like that right because then they know their pleasing you? Does fluid always come out and do your nipples always get hard? What about the face people say you make a face I’m sure its an unbelievable feeling and you get a warm feeling all over your body? Does this happen to everyone? Yes I’ve had sex before but I dont really think I’ve ever had an orgasm I’m just curious thanks!
release of fluid is how you know the women had an orgasm.
Like mine are unbelievable. My whole body is flooded with a warm tingling sensation. My toes curl and my legs go weak. My eyes almost roll back in my head and I sometimes feel like I’m about to pass out. Is it the same way for you?
Not all the time, but I have had a few like that one. Did you make the funny noises as well?
My sister did not know this. She’s been married for 8 years and has two kids. Unbelievable! We were watching Larry the Cable Guy a few weeks ago and he said something like…."Have you ever had an orgasm so good that you fell and hit your head on the tub and knocked yourself out?" (Or something like that) She turned to me and said…"Men have orgasms too?" I was speechless at first, and it took me by surprise, but I said…"Well, of course." And nothing else was said. We just left it at that. But she was dead serious! After her being married, and having children, I just don’t understand this.
JoeW: I do not live in a trailer. I live in a beach house near Galveston, Texas. I’m very much against inbreeding. As a matter of fact, we don’t know any of our blood relatives, since we were adopted. And just because someone likes Larry the Cable Guy doesn’t make them trailer-park hillbillies. Grow up!
Its not a problem of your sister, your sisters husband is not properly interacting with your sister while having sex, they should interact more to understand and know things more about each other.
Last night i was experiencing REM Sleep – Extremely Vivid dreams etc.
It was awesome, at some point during a the dream a very very hot women
sat on my lap, i became hard and we had sex. It felt so real it was unbelievable, just like sex. I Then ejaculated in my dream, and in real life at the exact same pace of the sex i was having in the dream. This may sound like a wet dream/nocturnal emission to some but i had real life sex the day before, so no sperm build up etc. Can the brain trick the body into ejaculating w/o touching the penis, and can this be learned while awake? Like mental control of the prostate? It seems somewhat possible to me, anyone else have similar stories or answers? Thanks – malemandudeguyboy
Yep, it can happen!
It was a wet dream.
The mind is in control.
I wouldn’t try to make this happen while awake, because I would never leave the house.
