Virginity for men isn’t something they usually brag about. And I believe my boyfriend, why would he lie about his virginity?
A couple days ago he had his first sex. I’m already rather experienced, but I didn’t care that he would be clumsy, because I love him. And I thought ‘teaching’ would be fun as well
But surprisingly, he gave me the best sex of my life. We did four times that night, and except for the first time, when he was finished within five minute(which was expected), he made me orgasm at least twice on each of the next three. It was unbelievable. I don’t think even experienced men could do that.
He’s 20, and had three girlfriends before me. But as I said, I trust him, and he has no reason to make up story.
Is he just naturally good at making love? Maybe he had lots of knowledge about it, and that made up for his lack of actual experience?
I pretty much know the signs but I’m just interested in if a guy can always tell or likes you doing that stuff such as moaning and panting and getting flushed and your heart beating fast and twitching and everything else they like that right because then they know their pleasing you? Does fluid always come out and do your nipples always get hard? What about the face people say you make a face I’m sure its an unbelievable feeling and you get a warm feeling all over your body? Does this happen to everyone? Yes I’ve had sex before but I dont really think I’ve ever had an orgasm I’m just curious thanks!
release of fluid is how you know the women had an orgasm.
Like mine are unbelievable. My whole body is flooded with a warm tingling sensation. My toes curl and my legs go weak. My eyes almost roll back in my head and I sometimes feel like I’m about to pass out. Is it the same way for you?
Not all the time, but I have had a few like that one. Did you make the funny noises as well?
Last night i was experiencing REM Sleep – Extremely Vivid dreams etc.
It was awesome, at some point during a the dream a very very hot women
sat on my lap, i became hard and we had sex. It felt so real it was unbelievable, just like sex. I Then ejaculated in my dream, and in real life at the exact same pace of the sex i was having in the dream. This may sound like a wet dream/nocturnal emission to some but i had real life sex the day before, so no sperm build up etc. Can the brain trick the body into ejaculating w/o touching the penis, and can this be learned while awake? Like mental control of the prostate? It seems somewhat possible to me, anyone else have similar stories or answers? Thanks – malemandudeguyboy
Yep, it can happen!
It was a wet dream.
The mind is in control.
I wouldn’t try to make this happen while awake, because I would never leave the house.
I’m so glad to have found this forum. I am 24 years old and have been trying to figure this problem out. I am generally healthy never had any issues and never took any form of birth control until August 08- Depo, I had spotting for the first few weeks then no period and I was THRILLED (although not having sex it was still nice to not worry) toward November when I was due for my 2nd depo shot I was bleeding again and figured it was "wearing off" and everything was normal- Then I had my period for 2 1/2 months! I decided not to get the shot again this time and my doc put me on progesterone pills for 10 days- stating everything would return to normal. I took the pills and the "period-like" bleeding stopped, but the last 3-4 months every time I have clitoral (no penetration- still not having sex) stimulation I bleed heavily for a few hours- clotted, fleshy deep red blood. I’ve been seeing a guy for several months and he must think I’m such a prude because I wont let his hand come anywhere near my vagina because I’d be mortified if I started bleeding all over… this is awful! HELP!!!!!!! I’ve also never had an abnormal pap or issues with yeast ect, but since the bleeding stopped I’ve had white discharge with a musky smell to it and I don’t know what to do- I feel so far from sexy its unbelievable- did I ruin my body with 2 stupid depo shots I didn’t even really need? This is terrible!
You’re not alone! I’ve been having the same problem… I’m 21 and I also had two doses of Depo but decided to get off of it because I hated it. (I gained 15 lbs the first 3 months). It was supposed to wear off in November, but I didn’t get my period back until the middle of February. Now whenever I have an orgasm I bleed approx. a teaspoon of blood just a couple of minutes after.
Over the phone, a nurse at my doc’s office said I bleed after orgasm because of the contractions/spasms that rock the uterus. She doesn’t know if the Depo is related to it. I have an appt to see me doctor Monday, so maybe I’ll get a better answer then? Email me at swizzle05@yahoo.com and I’ll let you know what my doc says!
Hope that helps a little. At least you know you’re not alone in this!
Ok so me and my girlfriend are celebrating our one year anniversary and valentines together. i have exams around valentines day and the week after and our one year is february 20th so we decided to do them both together on the weekend of the 20th.
first off i just want to say that every single present she has ever got me has beaten what i got her. every birthday, christmas so far she has been sooo amazing and done reallly creative things..im not just talking about money spent, but she always takes so much time to make unbelievable handmade cards, popup cards, coupon books, and she always writes incredibly sweet messages so I really want to give her an amazing night in return for all these things. I have an apartment at my university (not with her though) and my roomate will be gone for spring break. i wanted to bring her there and cook her dinner (nothing special, just pasta i was thinking since im not really much of a cook lol) and ive never really cooked for her before and have a nice candlelit dinner. after that i wanted to do presents, one which i was thinking would be a bracelet as kind of a 1 year present, as well as lingerie as a valentines present. before hand (earlier that day) i want to set up nice smelling rose petals in my room all over my bed and have candles all around it. so after the presents i would go into my bedroom, close the door, and ask her to change into her lingerie i got her and then come in when i say its okay. I’d light all the candles and things and put on some soft music and then call her in. and she’d come in wearing her new lingerie, the lights will be dimmed, soft music playing, candles around the room, rose petals all over the floor and bed and i’ll be lying on the bed in new boxer briefs with a rose in my mouth. (she’s said to me lots of times before how much she likes boxer briefs and how good she thinks they would look on me but i have never worn them before. i also know that she thinks the rose in the mouth thing is really adorable and thats why i was thinking of it). im basically thinking of that right now…one thing i have never been able to do is give her an orgasm without her "helping" with a hand if you know what i mean so i would LOVE to be able to do that on that night..any tips on that? any oils or gels that mighthelp? or give her a massage first?
wow that will make for an incredible valentines!
and the orgasm thing, i think you should just spend lots of time on foreplay and touching if you get my drift. a nice massage first myt help too.
Good luck!!!
help! can your vagina bee depressed? im disabled and have been on anti-depressants for 7 years as a pain killer and to help with the situation of becoming disabled, i came off of my anti -depressants 8 months ago and ever since sex has been painful uncomfortable makes me feel dirty, i want to do it in my head but my body doesn’t, i dont get horny i dont even like being touched, before this situation my partner and i were very sexually active for 4 years we would have sex 4/5 x aday even after having my baby i even wanted to have sex three days after having my baby, we enjoyed sex for 6 months after having my baby but i did get ill seriously ill and could only have sex once a week then we moved house and the sex got less and less until we got comfortable we tried to do it and the pain was unbelievable, we maybe have sex twice in 2 weeks, if that. i also have another problem if i do actually enjoy it and orgasm the orgasm causes me severe pain where it makes me cry like contraction cramping pain in my stomach and just under my stomach (the top outer part of my vagina) i have been referred to a gynaecologist, but if anybody can help me in the mean time i would really appreciate it i feel like i am going crazy it is really affecting me in my head please help!
No dear, your vagina doesn’t get depressed. You definitely need to see a GYN if you are experiencing pain such as that!
help! can your vagina bee depressed? im disabled and have been on anti-depressants for 7 years as a pain killer and to help with the situation of becoming disabled, i came off of my anti -depressants 8 months ago and ever since sex has been painful uncomfortable makes me feel dirty, i want to do it in my head but my body doesn’t, i dont get horny i dont even like being touched, before this situation my partner and i were very sexually active for 4 years we would have sex 4/5 x aday even after having my baby i even wanted to have sex three days after having my baby, we enjoyed sex for 6 months after having my baby but i did get ill seriously ill and could only have sex once a week then we moved house and the sex got less and less until we got comfortable we tried to do it and the pain was unbelievable, we maybe have sex twice in 2 weeks, if that. i also have another problem if i do actually enjoy it and orgasm the orgasm causes me severe pain where it makes me cry like contraction cramping pain in my stomach and just under my stomach (the top outer part of my vagina) i have been referred to a gynaecologist, but if anybody can help me in the mean time i would really appreciate it i feel like i am going crazy it is really affecting me in my head please help!
No dear, your vagina doesn’t get depressed. You definitely need to see a GYN if you are experiencing pain such as that!
been seeing this guy and he has not made me orgasm….I’m ready to dump him but I get so hot for him and the foreplays are unbelievable
What are your non-negotiables in a relationship? In other words, what are your deal-breakers? Is not having an orgasm a deal-breaker? If you liked everything else about this guy, would not being able to orgasm with him mean that you would get rid of all of the good things about him? I would recommend talking to him, showing him what you like, etc. Maybe it will happen in time.
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