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Hi guys. I gave my girlfriend her first oral experience this week (eat out). The problem is that after trying 2-3 times, she tells me that she feels an unbelievable sensation, and then suddenly tells me to get off because she feels (her clitoris) "too sensitive" (as if she wants me to continue, but she cant go on).
I tried to not lick it directly after the 1st time. But it always happens. Like she gets to the point where she’s really into it, but then she suddenly starts to push me away and urge me to stop for good.
Does any one know what this happen? It feels sort of frustrating that she seems to be about to orgasm :S
i get a similar sensation when my bf goes down on me,
for some girls it means they are close to orgasm, and when close to orgasm the cliteral area does become VERY sensitive, maybe next time you go down on her and it gets to the same point just switch to your hand and gently massage her.
i use the word gently very stongly, you dont want to be too harsh or she wont want you to go down there again.
good luck.
October 1st, 2009 at 11:33 pm
that’s too sick and sensitive a subject for an open question. why don’t you just ask her yourself?
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October 2nd, 2009 at 12:12 am
Maybe she could wear a panty and you could lick her through that.
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October 2nd, 2009 at 12:59 am
i get a similar sensation when my bf goes down on me,
for some girls it means they are close to orgasm, and when close to orgasm the cliteral area does become VERY sensitive, maybe next time you go down on her and it gets to the same point just switch to your hand and gently massage her.
i use the word gently very stongly, you dont want to be too harsh or she wont want you to go down there again.
good luck.
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October 2nd, 2009 at 1:13 am
Don’t be one of "those guys" that goes about it too rough…and too intensely! What she is experiencing is normal…..you need to go about it more gently. It’s not a chew toy! Forget everything you THINK you know about how to please a woman orally…..she will tell you how SHE likes it. And don’t expect your perfected (once you get it) technique to work on any other woman. Each woman likes it just a little bit differently.
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October 2nd, 2009 at 1:58 am
Why not try just going around the clit and only touching it ever so offten.
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October 2nd, 2009 at 2:25 am
To bring a woman to an orgasm requires more than just clitoral stimulation. Its usually a combination of things. Licking around the vagina, briefly licking the clitoris, and inserting fingers into the vagina. It sounds like your girlfriend has a really sensitive clit. Spending a lot of time on her clit could be painful. If you stimulate the vagina with out touching the clit for an extended period of time, and then touch the clit she will peobably cum. Have fun.
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October 2nd, 2009 at 2:40 am
Women have approximately 4000 nerve endings inside their clitoris – the same amount as a man has in his whole penis!
Most men and alot of women do not realise that all though the most concentrated nerve endings of the clitoris are in ‘the love button’ a space about the size of the eraser on the end of a pencil. The clitoris has ‘wings’ that continue down either side towards the vaginal opening and this is most often the better place to stimulate – the nerves are spread out in a density not unlike the penis, giving a more relaxed lead up to orgasm and saving the button stimulation for the last few seconds before the main event will make that ‘big O’ even better!
Longer strokes will help take the ‘stress’ from her clitoris and also as you feel her enjoyment start to build it is quite often that a guy tends to take this is a go harder or go faster signal as it is with a guy but for women it is generally the opposite.
The fact that this was her first oral experience I think she is doing great to be so relaxed enough to feel an orgasm begin to build.
Relax, have fun and it will come!
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