Not a newbie..but is something wrong with me?
After a long relationship, My fiance and I decided to have intercourse. as of right now not a newbie..When we enjoy a nice time together, there is no pleasure to me, I am strictly in pain and When we do it over the phone, It is almost unbelievable how good the orgasm is…He is not rough and nor he is too soft, and Does all the right things before intercourse but I only scream in pain…and there is no orgasm..Could something be wrong with me, could be my pelvic bone, or are the muscles just too tight? I have absolutely no pleasure when he inside..I do love him with all my heart .He is about 12 inches long and tells me its bc I’m tight. I am medically speaking with all do respect! Can someone please explain this to me? thank you!!
by the way…ive had irregular periods before and since dec 19 to feb 4th i had my period 3 times..could something seriously be wrong as i cant get an appointment with my GYN until march 2nd!
Two comments,
<> He’s a pretty “big” guy
<> I think you should probably get a gyn checkup, make sure there IS no actual physical issue for you downstairs.
John Jones, MD

April 7th, 2010 at 12:44 pm
well, if u are tight and he is that long i wud think u wud be in pain!
it might take some time but he is stretching u lol
maybe use lube?
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April 7th, 2010 at 1:12 pm
You may have an underlying condition. See your gyno. It may be that since no one’s been in you in a while, you’re not as loose as you could be. You may have a low pain tolerance, although, intercourse should not be painful.
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CNA, Pre Nursing Student
April 7th, 2010 at 1:22 pm
Two comments,
<> He’s a pretty "big" guy
<> I think you should probably get a gyn checkup, make sure there IS no actual physical issue for you downstairs.
John Jones, MD
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practicing gynecologist