it is said that kegel exercises strenghen the vaginal muscles.

Kegel’s strength the pelvic muscles and have nothing to do with whether or not you will bleed when your hymen is torn and/or broken.

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When we "do it" she always has an unbelievable orgasm (trust me, if she is faking it,she deserves an Oscar!). PLUS, she always has her Big-O long before I do – in fact, sometimes I never get to (talk about role reversal!). BUT, when we were dating, we were intimate nearly every night (well, at least more, if not usually, four or five times a week). Another thing, she NEVER initiates and traditional missionary is pretty much all that I can get her to do. Shes only climbed on top maybe three times in our four years of marriage. This is my third marriage, her fourth. She is 53 and I’m 57.

.Why are you asking us? We don’t know her. Talk to her about this. Perhaps her sex drive has diminished (it happens). Perhaps there is some other issue (or issues). We have no way of knowing. COMMUNICATE…if talking to her doesn’t change anything or she’s not willing to make an effort to discover why her desire is down, then you have to decide if you are willing to accept things as they are or not.

Maybe she needs some romancing and flirting and something that makes her feel like she’s stepped back to the time you were dating. Couldn’t hurt.

My wife did the kegels faithfully trying to avoid surgery, but had to have the surgery anyway. I am not trying to be discouraging, because her doctor is convinced that if she had seen him sooner that the kegels would have prevented the surgery. The problem was that she waited until it was too late for the kegels. So, keep up the kegels and don’t give up hope !! And for those of you that are waiting, don’t wait….see your doctor soon, and start those kegels now. It is much easier than the surgery.

I have a client who believes that there is no treatment for this

What does his doctor have to say about this? I mean, he should be the one your ‘client’ needs to speak to

okay im 15 and i do masturbate maybe 3/4times a week and i think i have had quite a few orgasms, im a female by the way.

i think i get them almost every time i maturbate.

and i know people say that if you question it then you havent had one but it gets really exciting then it happens and my muscles down there start pulsing and cntracting for about a minute then stop.

dont get me wrong its quite pleasuable but its not amazing or unbelievable as many people say, it only seems to last like 10seconds:S.

so what do you think, was it an orgasm?

yes….Yes….YEs….YES…YEEESSS it was an orgasm. The randier you feel, the better they are, so take your time and enjoy. (By the way, Loyless should be called Joyless, if her answer is anything to go by)

I’ve been doing the kegel exercises online however idk how to use it to stop premature ejactulation, does it work by automatically making you last longer or are you suppose to be doing something while having sex r masturbating , also how long does it take to get results

Unlike what Aisha said, Kegel Exercises don’t only benefit females, but males also. They are something that will take a while to work, not immediately. You can take her advice on how to allow you to last longer during sexual stimulation, but you should also continue to do the Kegel Exercises. Just like any muscle, it’ll take a while for it to strengthen, depending on how often you use it, how long you exercise it and so on.,
Read the sites I’ve listed below and others like it to find more information on it. There are many books and websites to help you better understand how to do it. You can always talk to your doctor for more information on the PC muscles and Kegel exercises. You have to do Kegel exercises consistently to see the results of this in a good amount of time. There are other methods to use to control ejaculation that last for the short time (that one sexual experience) which you have probably already figured out. Kegel exercises are to be done in free time, not during sexual activity. Refer to the websites for more information. Hope this helps.

She is an older woman that has a problem that has already affected some of us personally. She leaves some of the office Chairs "wet" and pretends like nothing is wrong. Someone has accidentally sat in the "wetness" several times! Not only is that unsanitary but the smell, OMG! Please Help!

This is becoming a health issue, and someone needs to speak to her about it. It could be HR, or her supervisor, or even you; but it must be done in a dignified and respectful manner.

Beyond that, she must really take the lead on being responsible enough to care for herself; and to stop being selfish in ignoring her coworkers legitimate concerns. She needs to seek medical care, wear protective pads, and use absorbent mats on the surfaces she sits on. This is not optional, for all of your health.

Cheers!

So I have these orgasms (clitoral) in my sleep sometimes. And they are SO intense – like unbelievable.

Why are they more intense in my sleep than my "awake" orgasm?

You are probably more relaxed and having sexy thoughts in your dreams, I expect you are rubbing your clit too, even if you don’t remember. Its unusual to have orgasms in your sleep, I’ve had one or 2 in 40 years but good luck to you

What diagnosis would this patient most likely receive?
I was given this question in nursing school, and did not recieve any further details.

Anaphylaxis does involve all of these symptoms, so I think that sounds like a good answer. Thanks.

It’s really too difficult to even begin to diagnose a patient with all these symptoms without first delving further into the patients background and history.

It’s best that the patient spoke to a doctor to clearly assess and explain what it could be.